few days ago, a good friend who talked to me about the ancient Jews, the truth of the words that someone was expressed implicit trust. In this scenario Semitic, one could believe what he heard from the simple fact that the other was responsible for the words coming from his lips, because lying to first put into play the link between the interlocutor and the person affected them both, and wounded them both.
But modern times are very different from those who lived thousands of years ago, and now the truth is what is testable, and one is innocent until he is proved otherwise. Why such mistrust? In our world
white lies are a license that sometimes the truth is taken not to hurt the other, the pranks are for white lies that do not hurt anyone and who are forgotten in no time. Theoretically.
For philosophical called "poststructuralism" reality corresponds to the language: to what people say. But not because what we say is determined by the how things are, but rather, what determines how we are actually structured language. In other words, the reality that surrounds us is perceived by us as how described and according to those with whom we spoke described through language.
Physically it is the same glass, but one is half full and another is half empty. Subtleties such as this depends on how we view the universe.
But realistically, humans lie quite often, sometimes out of habit. I lie, you lie and lie even animals. It is a matter of survival, and in a wild context, and one social. But far from asserting that lying is good, I can say that it is sometimes necessary. What occasions?, Well, that depends on the discretion and restraint of everyone. The same who will also be confronted by the consequences of his lie.
A common scenario for a lie is usually the scientist, the researcher establishes a hypothesis and then collects data through syllogistic juggle one hundred, will be adjusted to fit within your initial approach. Those who do not enter it will be classified as insignificant exceptions to the rule, and thus a new law sees the light of scientific debate.
Not all science is based on lies of course, but the deception, even without intent, sometimes kidded by excessive enthusiasm, often recurrent. Scientists are likely to deceive themselves by adjusting the reality to their hypothesis, and consequently to deceive others because, ultimately, a lie is to change the reality. Particularly
reality we do not like. In the realm of everyday life lie is even more recurrent, sometimes the people we turn to it to change the image of who we are, essentially changing the way we describe. Most everyday of what we conceive, we see how people do it apart to impress infallibly who is or who is the object of our affection, we present more professionals to better jobs, more threatening to prevent a brawl we see coming.
is probably too much time in which the bursts lie and is installed in close relationships we have with others, friends, family, relationships which in theory should be the sanctuary where we can break our defense and rest of the social pressures require us to lie. There is no place like this where it more clear that the lie threatens the bond between two people.
may be that what we perceive to be, not part of a reality that we particularly like, so we make a description us, for others, that does not conform to what we really are. Priceless. Sometimes the lie is prolonged beyond the time when the relationship begins, beyond the time of first impression, and allow the complete list is sustained by a fake. It happens a lot with so-called masks, like the poses and attitudes that give a false picture of us and put into play, if not at risk, the rate at which we were betting.
When the other person realizes that it has established a relationship with someone who is not what you know, often feel uncertainty and decide to leave.
And sometimes we need others to lie, tell us we are in a way that does not think we are. We project a false image to return one closest description to what you would want to be, that what we really are. This is the situation associated to the stereotype of the bully or the wise guy, who every now and take the opportunity to reinforce the image they wish to project of itself, even without understanding, forging a dynamic that will ironically distance from people.
Smarty particularly has no qualms about pretending to have answers that do not have, say things without considering the consequence, given that his main interest is to demonstrate "once again" it is he who knows. Contradicts another with sufficiency and invent facts that sound good, gaining prestige from its false allegations that are accepted in lieu of which are true. Thus inadvertent shaping how their partners perceive the world from lies.
Smarty, who lies consistently to maintain their status, known to himself what others see in it is false, but can stand quietly while sitting incongruity accepted by them. Unfortunately for him, in his quest to appear as one who keeps and maintains the truth, enters a competition dynamics, within which it is necessary to discredit their friends or others who are personally significant to maintain the desired status. Sadly, sustained deception feel a distance between him and the same people whose acceptance searches.
systematic liar lives condemned to not be known by those who wish not to establish intimacy with anyone while making use of lies as their way of interaction. People are linked to his mask and not to him, remember his stories, but not their history. And finally, the lie becomes the defense is difficult to abandon, because for him there is always the disbelief in how successful your true self might be, the question that without lying still might be nice to get eyes of others.
The liar is sadly captive in a dungeon in which he himself holds the key.
How much is little?, We would say here in Mexico. The best way to know when the line lying in the "too" when we begin to feel that we hide the truth away from our people. This can probably be a warning mechanism.
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