29 to July 29
I have no way to explain how I feel. Words are not friends, do not even think to alleviate. Geometrically'm far enough for happiness. I can not explain reasons I should not. I lost all my dreams and nightmares joined I did not know they could be set. I was wrong, you were wrong. Pardon and forgive. Humility to surrender to the higher order whatever. And the sky is falling, and the collapse of the love, trust, the collapse of the heart, breasts, uterus, stomach. Life crumbles, hope. I beadle in a lake of distress. Now I can see my dear, the only sound I expected to fix my mom's clubs. It's a question of doing nothing more, nor ask, nor expect, or believe, or wonder. It's over, I was to die standing, I bleed, I integrity to tackle the debris fall on me yet. After not.
and truly forgive you and forgive me. All learned. And this is not over yet, the hardest decision in the hands of the universe, I'm just another instrument. I can not even begin to hurt. Stage of disease end ... the end? end of the game?
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Marijuana And Folliculitis
die or kill remaining 32 h.
if not self-punishment. Do not know what away. Not what I come. Today I ate many breadsticks with mayonnaise, rice and bread warmed. Today I go to bed dressed in jeans because, because. It is about the other side of the yellow line, double-trailer truck in reverse. I'm myself, hoping my coalition against dreams. As part of the door the father of my daughter throwing blame if I have not. Cata says she also has tiny tits and operable. Today is cold outside and cold inside. I have fear, I feel confused and alone. We'll sleep Pegaditas? and a wind blown off my courageous.
if I'm wrong I promise not to say "I told you." If this is to bet on something new is not taking risks, what is? Book
planetary transits in hand, and the journey we, together, the three, alone at 3, adored and abandoned ... July 1 ice cream between toes.
if not self-punishment. Do not know what away. Not what I come. Today I ate many breadsticks with mayonnaise, rice and bread warmed. Today I go to bed dressed in jeans because, because. It is about the other side of the yellow line, double-trailer truck in reverse. I'm myself, hoping my coalition against dreams. As part of the door the father of my daughter throwing blame if I have not. Cata says she also has tiny tits and operable. Today is cold outside and cold inside. I have fear, I feel confused and alone. We'll sleep Pegaditas? and a wind blown off my courageous.
if I'm wrong I promise not to say "I told you." If this is to bet on something new is not taking risks, what is? Book
planetary transits in hand, and the journey we, together, the three, alone at 3, adored and abandoned ... July 1 ice cream between toes.
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Dunne Buggy For Sale Ontario
If I did not believe in the madness
As you say, the engine stops and all passengers unaccustomed silence wake up at 5 am in the middle of nowhere. If you feel vulnerable not tell me, because the flame of my fears will placate your ironic humor, and I begin to think it is a good adventure. No light, no water, no time. The sun came out and we get to that place where people do not ask our silly mediocrity. We
way, I explain that I lost the notion of time, space, about me, about you, what I come to do, what time the match starts.
What we do with the people, because it is the drug of fanaticism, it is played, is to believe, is to have the enemy so far away it seems that here we all queremos.Siento your arms tight around my waist.
I'm always in the back seat. from here but look at me look look. I think not let me think, feel, choose, look at the passing landscape. From here you see me no love, no risk. From here apachucho me, trying to sleep and focus.
We're coming. An hour ago we're getting. cactus, ground, terra cotta. Green, yellow and brown number. Not a trace of water, do not know why I thought my shoes would go to smear. When there is water all dust, breathe, enjoy, you choke, you get scenery with him. One more. As if it had never known the city, or downtown, or the country. I guess the neon signs as if he had seen only in movies.
Let's make health care ranch ranch. 10 km from each other. It is July 4 and the hot sun in November. A ranch is land in the walls and floor. Is straw on the roof. It pans and ojalatas. It's kind of my grandmother's house because mixing some antique furniture. Wooden benches and stools. Seats may be missing anything but inviting to sit, wait for time to pass, that the natural light off and not know what will happen next. There are seats for everyone, but I do not run until the sunlight turn, that makes me anxious. In each house a clock, which stood for some time, years ago ... what a year there in the middle of nowhere? where no path is planned, where the steps are the steps through mazes in grasslands.
She says that everyone can read but she is the best understood. She is a girl, but she already has two children. Are not parents, are not men, not seen. The women, nurses, grandmothers, mothers, children, incest, cousins \u200b\u200brunning around between the earth ground. You looking guys. I looking young. Mandarins to beat the thirst.
no mistake, I saw poverty, can not be defined well. I saw another paradigm, another culture, another viewpoint, another way to begin to live, and finish well.
I felt we could not do anything more than take to open our consciousness and our hearts, in the village of no time and empty bottles.
I, there, lost, without anyone to realize who I am and how I have to be. I lost there, knowing you lost to you, always finding yourself with your wonder boy. I felt alive, inultil, confused and exhausted. And that seems to be the beginning of a change. Here the land is arid, and what is the humidity that kills. I have things to do. active parts of my mind before sleeping.
is night and the police treat me like a child. Two people on the seat no, it does not cross the line of departure. We are uncomfortable, we want the magical clip eject us of this expectation. We tried to play but we are adults angry. We rest. I think I'll give, I think I will mourn.
not ask me to explain what happened. The tender skin of the unseen. The folklore of the soul. An external vision. The death of the illusion of wanting to endure. There is something else. Telepathic yellow triangle. There is a train to get to the station and I'm going to climb.
Sometimes one has the final feeling that is growing is growing
freedom or responsibility? containment or emotion? Astrology 2nd year.
a child to mother and mother-to-female ... with boobs.
As you say, the engine stops and all passengers unaccustomed silence wake up at 5 am in the middle of nowhere. If you feel vulnerable not tell me, because the flame of my fears will placate your ironic humor, and I begin to think it is a good adventure. No light, no water, no time. The sun came out and we get to that place where people do not ask our silly mediocrity. We
way, I explain that I lost the notion of time, space, about me, about you, what I come to do, what time the match starts.
What we do with the people, because it is the drug of fanaticism, it is played, is to believe, is to have the enemy so far away it seems that here we all queremos.Siento your arms tight around my waist.
I'm always in the back seat. from here but look at me look look. I think not let me think, feel, choose, look at the passing landscape. From here you see me no love, no risk. From here apachucho me, trying to sleep and focus.
We're coming. An hour ago we're getting. cactus, ground, terra cotta. Green, yellow and brown number. Not a trace of water, do not know why I thought my shoes would go to smear. When there is water all dust, breathe, enjoy, you choke, you get scenery with him. One more. As if it had never known the city, or downtown, or the country. I guess the neon signs as if he had seen only in movies.
Let's make health care ranch ranch. 10 km from each other. It is July 4 and the hot sun in November. A ranch is land in the walls and floor. Is straw on the roof. It pans and ojalatas. It's kind of my grandmother's house because mixing some antique furniture. Wooden benches and stools. Seats may be missing anything but inviting to sit, wait for time to pass, that the natural light off and not know what will happen next. There are seats for everyone, but I do not run until the sunlight turn, that makes me anxious. In each house a clock, which stood for some time, years ago ... what a year there in the middle of nowhere? where no path is planned, where the steps are the steps through mazes in grasslands.
She says that everyone can read but she is the best understood. She is a girl, but she already has two children. Are not parents, are not men, not seen. The women, nurses, grandmothers, mothers, children, incest, cousins \u200b\u200brunning around between the earth ground. You looking guys. I looking young. Mandarins to beat the thirst.
no mistake, I saw poverty, can not be defined well. I saw another paradigm, another culture, another viewpoint, another way to begin to live, and finish well.
I felt we could not do anything more than take to open our consciousness and our hearts, in the village of no time and empty bottles.
I, there, lost, without anyone to realize who I am and how I have to be. I lost there, knowing you lost to you, always finding yourself with your wonder boy. I felt alive, inultil, confused and exhausted. And that seems to be the beginning of a change. Here the land is arid, and what is the humidity that kills. I have things to do. active parts of my mind before sleeping.
is night and the police treat me like a child. Two people on the seat no, it does not cross the line of departure. We are uncomfortable, we want the magical clip eject us of this expectation. We tried to play but we are adults angry. We rest. I think I'll give, I think I will mourn.
not ask me to explain what happened. The tender skin of the unseen. The folklore of the soul. An external vision. The death of the illusion of wanting to endure. There is something else. Telepathic yellow triangle. There is a train to get to the station and I'm going to climb.
Sometimes one has the final feeling that is growing is growing
freedom or responsibility? containment or emotion? Astrology 2nd year.
a child to mother and mother-to-female ... with boobs.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Does Anyone Have A Cat - Ski Patrol
Differentiating between gay and heterosexual couples
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is not a novelty that a hetero couple has a different relationship dynamics to that of a gay couple, and it is not as one consisting of two men that another two women. They were all very likely as heterosexual and educated in a setting straight: If you are a woman, you perform as such embarazándote, being mother and having children, if you're male, you provider plays realizarte being male and in charge.
The followers of psychoanalysis would say about their turn to be sadistic and masochistic other, that is, assets and other liabilities. This works when he and she are joined in pairs, each with their established roles, and there is no conflict, unless for reasons of personality or education between the two question any of these guidelines. Until then everything is balanced.
The conflict comes when a member of the hetero couples give for not wanting to fulfill his role and reveals, wanting to be as active as it is supposed to be the man, or as fragile as it is supposed to be the woman, example. There will be competition, you want the exclusivity of the attribute that corresponds to his kind and one hers, not to mention the woman who wants to be protected, because it taught him not want to protect him and face the uncertainty of being descobijada; while he, who was brought up to be "the boss" will not want to delegate the decision because it would make him feel less masculine, less of a man, following the example.
folly or neurosis is not on their side, it's just that we are so deeply conditioned by the culture that we take from family, friends, media and so on, which is extremely slow process of freeing one of the stereotypes gender. The woman will not be less women and men will not want to be less of a man, because if so, society would punish them with ridicule, the silent or discrediting net.
A gay couple is almost equal. Educated to be like they are supposed to be men and women, two men who form a couple want both be The provider, decision maker and protector, two women in couples want to be the one that nurtures, THE maternal, LA cherishes the other. Not getting the satisfaction of this emotional need to fulfill their gender role, creates the risk of undermining the image they have of themselves and the extent to which they want for themselves.
As with heterosexual couples, between two gay people, competition comes from the ideas of gender, however, while the first question arises when the role they were determined to follow in the second starts from the beginning and does not end until that question the same role. Therefore, the conflict came from the competition is more important in a gay couple in their heterosexual counterparts.
On the other hand, is not the same view a gay couple than a straight, right? Being gay means being poorly received, the whispers of the people and discrediting stigma and to a lesser or greater degree. A homosexual is, for one thing, someone who uses sex only to find pleasure, without addressing the reproductive functions that their sexuality is inherent. At least so say the voices right.
Here in Mexico is supplied, for example. I know very good jokes against them. Not to mention the National Ación Party, to which belongs our H. President and the Church, in his pious efforts to make us good men and women neutered, asexual and extremely frustrated to be. Just being.
Sexuality has been and will probably be topic taboo and embarrassment within the framework of the intrinsic embarrassment that keeps the human being as human being. The only acceptable excuse that morality is accepted for sexual reproduction, and it appears inadmissible upon exercise of the sexuality just for pleasure. Often the cause of all sins: pleasure. There are still some who do not understand that pleasure comes after you die, in a paradise of white cotton candy that may exist and that perhaps we are waiting, and meanwhile, it is our moral duty to burn and bleed in this valley tears that is life ...
... and so want us to have mental health?
Homosexuals are not looking favorably by that sinful hedonism attributed to them by the unnatural in acting, and all those who have been educated in a culture equal to or parallel to the Judeo-Christian, will apply stigma in small or large extent. Gay men and women born in a culture well, so exercise was not spared the stigma and discrimination against other gays ... and themselves.
And you can handle the speech, be aware of the fault and argue about it sure, but emotions will take too long to adapt. In the same way as a man can know holding the spider in hand will not hurt, does not remove the anxiety felt a tightness in his chest, or as he argues with conviction against sexism is going to blush when a woman of her purse to pay the taxi being fell the. Reason and emotion. It is always easier to work the first than the second, and always the first will be the way to effect change on an emotional level. The spider holding or rejecting sexism are not the work already completed, they need to work their emotions, but have already a good road trip.
same thing happens with women or gay men. You probably know that being gay is not bad ... neither good and there only is unrelated to any axiology. You may know that are as valuable as anyone and maybe more, depending on their individual characteristics. Likely to dominate the whole speech, but still need to have sex with the lights off, or even refuse to say they are openly gay. Reason and emotion, the difference between knowing it and feel it.
Thus, within a homo couples often have such discrimination to the other and to himself, leading to coerce the other when it shows "too much" his homosexuality and to repress the expression itself, pear not seem "as" homosexual .
is this Under which leads to the gay community in the world to be segmented into sub-groups: leather, queens, rubber and so on, where a group discriminate against others on the extent to which they express their homosexuality. In general, as Goffman would say in his essay on stigma, which have the object of her more evident stigma or notoriety are placed at the bottom of the hierarchy, while remaining on top of prestige to those who "are note "to a lesser extent.
... in a gay couple a dynamic competition exists much stronger than a straight gender by mentioning the first few paragraphs and the stigma, where either try to be who unless you note that he is gay. So, in psychotherapy, you can not treat as a couple than another, because each has subtle characteristics that differentiate them and very specific needs.
already Marina Castañeda, in his book The Homosexual Experience, highlighted the fact that some well-meaning therapists tended to treat homosexual couples if they were heterosexual, under the banner of preventing discrimination and not from the therapeutic act of social stigma. However, the strategy is not one hundred percent functional. Even
to 40 ...
is not a novelty that a hetero couple has a different relationship dynamics to that of a gay couple, and it is not as one consisting of two men that another two women. They were all very likely as heterosexual and educated in a setting straight: If you are a woman, you perform as such embarazándote, being mother and having children, if you're male, you provider plays realizarte being male and in charge.
The followers of psychoanalysis would say about their turn to be sadistic and masochistic other, that is, assets and other liabilities. This works when he and she are joined in pairs, each with their established roles, and there is no conflict, unless for reasons of personality or education between the two question any of these guidelines. Until then everything is balanced.
The conflict comes when a member of the hetero couples give for not wanting to fulfill his role and reveals, wanting to be as active as it is supposed to be the man, or as fragile as it is supposed to be the woman, example. There will be competition, you want the exclusivity of the attribute that corresponds to his kind and one hers, not to mention the woman who wants to be protected, because it taught him not want to protect him and face the uncertainty of being descobijada; while he, who was brought up to be "the boss" will not want to delegate the decision because it would make him feel less masculine, less of a man, following the example.
folly or neurosis is not on their side, it's just that we are so deeply conditioned by the culture that we take from family, friends, media and so on, which is extremely slow process of freeing one of the stereotypes gender. The woman will not be less women and men will not want to be less of a man, because if so, society would punish them with ridicule, the silent or discrediting net.
A gay couple is almost equal. Educated to be like they are supposed to be men and women, two men who form a couple want both be The provider, decision maker and protector, two women in couples want to be the one that nurtures, THE maternal, LA cherishes the other. Not getting the satisfaction of this emotional need to fulfill their gender role, creates the risk of undermining the image they have of themselves and the extent to which they want for themselves.
As with heterosexual couples, between two gay people, competition comes from the ideas of gender, however, while the first question arises when the role they were determined to follow in the second starts from the beginning and does not end until that question the same role. Therefore, the conflict came from the competition is more important in a gay couple in their heterosexual counterparts.
On the other hand, is not the same view a gay couple than a straight, right? Being gay means being poorly received, the whispers of the people and discrediting stigma and to a lesser or greater degree. A homosexual is, for one thing, someone who uses sex only to find pleasure, without addressing the reproductive functions that their sexuality is inherent. At least so say the voices right.
Here in Mexico is supplied, for example. I know very good jokes against them. Not to mention the National Ación Party, to which belongs our H. President and the Church, in his pious efforts to make us good men and women neutered, asexual and extremely frustrated to be. Just being.
Sexuality has been and will probably be topic taboo and embarrassment within the framework of the intrinsic embarrassment that keeps the human being as human being. The only acceptable excuse that morality is accepted for sexual reproduction, and it appears inadmissible upon exercise of the sexuality just for pleasure. Often the cause of all sins: pleasure. There are still some who do not understand that pleasure comes after you die, in a paradise of white cotton candy that may exist and that perhaps we are waiting, and meanwhile, it is our moral duty to burn and bleed in this valley tears that is life ...
... and so want us to have mental health?
Homosexuals are not looking favorably by that sinful hedonism attributed to them by the unnatural in acting, and all those who have been educated in a culture equal to or parallel to the Judeo-Christian, will apply stigma in small or large extent. Gay men and women born in a culture well, so exercise was not spared the stigma and discrimination against other gays ... and themselves.
And you can handle the speech, be aware of the fault and argue about it sure, but emotions will take too long to adapt. In the same way as a man can know holding the spider in hand will not hurt, does not remove the anxiety felt a tightness in his chest, or as he argues with conviction against sexism is going to blush when a woman of her purse to pay the taxi being fell the. Reason and emotion. It is always easier to work the first than the second, and always the first will be the way to effect change on an emotional level. The spider holding or rejecting sexism are not the work already completed, they need to work their emotions, but have already a good road trip.
same thing happens with women or gay men. You probably know that being gay is not bad ... neither good and there only is unrelated to any axiology. You may know that are as valuable as anyone and maybe more, depending on their individual characteristics. Likely to dominate the whole speech, but still need to have sex with the lights off, or even refuse to say they are openly gay. Reason and emotion, the difference between knowing it and feel it.
Thus, within a homo couples often have such discrimination to the other and to himself, leading to coerce the other when it shows "too much" his homosexuality and to repress the expression itself, pear not seem "as" homosexual .
is this Under which leads to the gay community in the world to be segmented into sub-groups: leather, queens, rubber and so on, where a group discriminate against others on the extent to which they express their homosexuality. In general, as Goffman would say in his essay on stigma, which have the object of her more evident stigma or notoriety are placed at the bottom of the hierarchy, while remaining on top of prestige to those who "are note "to a lesser extent.
... in a gay couple a dynamic competition exists much stronger than a straight gender by mentioning the first few paragraphs and the stigma, where either try to be who unless you note that he is gay. So, in psychotherapy, you can not treat as a couple than another, because each has subtle characteristics that differentiate them and very specific needs.
This is a blog post http://xiu-cuautli.blogspot.com/
Polaroid One Step 600
short reflection about lying under construction Identities
few days ago, a good friend who talked to me about the ancient Jews, the truth of the words that someone was expressed implicit trust. In this scenario Semitic, one could believe what he heard from the simple fact that the other was responsible for the words coming from his lips, because lying to first put into play the link between the interlocutor and the person affected them both, and wounded them both.
But modern times are very different from those who lived thousands of years ago, and now the truth is what is testable, and one is innocent until he is proved otherwise. Why such mistrust? In our world
white lies are a license that sometimes the truth is taken not to hurt the other, the pranks are for white lies that do not hurt anyone and who are forgotten in no time. Theoretically.
For philosophical called "poststructuralism" reality corresponds to the language: to what people say. But not because what we say is determined by the how things are, but rather, what determines how we are actually structured language. In other words, the reality that surrounds us is perceived by us as how described and according to those with whom we spoke described through language.
Physically it is the same glass, but one is half full and another is half empty. Subtleties such as this depends on how we view the universe.
But realistically, humans lie quite often, sometimes out of habit. I lie, you lie and lie even animals. It is a matter of survival, and in a wild context, and one social. But far from asserting that lying is good, I can say that it is sometimes necessary. What occasions?, Well, that depends on the discretion and restraint of everyone. The same who will also be confronted by the consequences of his lie.
A common scenario for a lie is usually the scientist, the researcher establishes a hypothesis and then collects data through syllogistic juggle one hundred, will be adjusted to fit within your initial approach. Those who do not enter it will be classified as insignificant exceptions to the rule, and thus a new law sees the light of scientific debate.
Not all science is based on lies of course, but the deception, even without intent, sometimes kidded by excessive enthusiasm, often recurrent. Scientists are likely to deceive themselves by adjusting the reality to their hypothesis, and consequently to deceive others because, ultimately, a lie is to change the reality. Particularly
reality we do not like. In the realm of everyday life lie is even more recurrent, sometimes the people we turn to it to change the image of who we are, essentially changing the way we describe. Most everyday of what we conceive, we see how people do it apart to impress infallibly who is or who is the object of our affection, we present more professionals to better jobs, more threatening to prevent a brawl we see coming.
is probably too much time in which the bursts lie and is installed in close relationships we have with others, friends, family, relationships which in theory should be the sanctuary where we can break our defense and rest of the social pressures require us to lie. There is no place like this where it more clear that the lie threatens the bond between two people.
may be that what we perceive to be, not part of a reality that we particularly like, so we make a description us, for others, that does not conform to what we really are. Priceless. Sometimes the lie is prolonged beyond the time when the relationship begins, beyond the time of first impression, and allow the complete list is sustained by a fake. It happens a lot with so-called masks, like the poses and attitudes that give a false picture of us and put into play, if not at risk, the rate at which we were betting.
When the other person realizes that it has established a relationship with someone who is not what you know, often feel uncertainty and decide to leave.
And sometimes we need others to lie, tell us we are in a way that does not think we are. We project a false image to return one closest description to what you would want to be, that what we really are. This is the situation associated to the stereotype of the bully or the wise guy, who every now and take the opportunity to reinforce the image they wish to project of itself, even without understanding, forging a dynamic that will ironically distance from people.
Smarty particularly has no qualms about pretending to have answers that do not have, say things without considering the consequence, given that his main interest is to demonstrate "once again" it is he who knows. Contradicts another with sufficiency and invent facts that sound good, gaining prestige from its false allegations that are accepted in lieu of which are true. Thus inadvertent shaping how their partners perceive the world from lies.
Smarty, who lies consistently to maintain their status, known to himself what others see in it is false, but can stand quietly while sitting incongruity accepted by them. Unfortunately for him, in his quest to appear as one who keeps and maintains the truth, enters a competition dynamics, within which it is necessary to discredit their friends or others who are personally significant to maintain the desired status. Sadly, sustained deception feel a distance between him and the same people whose acceptance searches.
systematic liar lives condemned to not be known by those who wish not to establish intimacy with anyone while making use of lies as their way of interaction. People are linked to his mask and not to him, remember his stories, but not their history. And finally, the lie becomes the defense is difficult to abandon, because for him there is always the disbelief in how successful your true self might be, the question that without lying still might be nice to get eyes of others.
The liar is sadly captive in a dungeon in which he himself holds the key.
How much is little?, We would say here in Mexico. The best way to know when the line lying in the "too" when we begin to feel that we hide the truth away from our people. This can probably be a warning mechanism.
few days ago, a good friend who talked to me about the ancient Jews, the truth of the words that someone was expressed implicit trust. In this scenario Semitic, one could believe what he heard from the simple fact that the other was responsible for the words coming from his lips, because lying to first put into play the link between the interlocutor and the person affected them both, and wounded them both.
But modern times are very different from those who lived thousands of years ago, and now the truth is what is testable, and one is innocent until he is proved otherwise. Why such mistrust? In our world
white lies are a license that sometimes the truth is taken not to hurt the other, the pranks are for white lies that do not hurt anyone and who are forgotten in no time. Theoretically.
For philosophical called "poststructuralism" reality corresponds to the language: to what people say. But not because what we say is determined by the how things are, but rather, what determines how we are actually structured language. In other words, the reality that surrounds us is perceived by us as how described and according to those with whom we spoke described through language.
Physically it is the same glass, but one is half full and another is half empty. Subtleties such as this depends on how we view the universe.
But realistically, humans lie quite often, sometimes out of habit. I lie, you lie and lie even animals. It is a matter of survival, and in a wild context, and one social. But far from asserting that lying is good, I can say that it is sometimes necessary. What occasions?, Well, that depends on the discretion and restraint of everyone. The same who will also be confronted by the consequences of his lie.
A common scenario for a lie is usually the scientist, the researcher establishes a hypothesis and then collects data through syllogistic juggle one hundred, will be adjusted to fit within your initial approach. Those who do not enter it will be classified as insignificant exceptions to the rule, and thus a new law sees the light of scientific debate.
Not all science is based on lies of course, but the deception, even without intent, sometimes kidded by excessive enthusiasm, often recurrent. Scientists are likely to deceive themselves by adjusting the reality to their hypothesis, and consequently to deceive others because, ultimately, a lie is to change the reality. Particularly
reality we do not like. In the realm of everyday life lie is even more recurrent, sometimes the people we turn to it to change the image of who we are, essentially changing the way we describe. Most everyday of what we conceive, we see how people do it apart to impress infallibly who is or who is the object of our affection, we present more professionals to better jobs, more threatening to prevent a brawl we see coming.
is probably too much time in which the bursts lie and is installed in close relationships we have with others, friends, family, relationships which in theory should be the sanctuary where we can break our defense and rest of the social pressures require us to lie. There is no place like this where it more clear that the lie threatens the bond between two people.
may be that what we perceive to be, not part of a reality that we particularly like, so we make a description us, for others, that does not conform to what we really are. Priceless. Sometimes the lie is prolonged beyond the time when the relationship begins, beyond the time of first impression, and allow the complete list is sustained by a fake. It happens a lot with so-called masks, like the poses and attitudes that give a false picture of us and put into play, if not at risk, the rate at which we were betting.
When the other person realizes that it has established a relationship with someone who is not what you know, often feel uncertainty and decide to leave.
And sometimes we need others to lie, tell us we are in a way that does not think we are. We project a false image to return one closest description to what you would want to be, that what we really are. This is the situation associated to the stereotype of the bully or the wise guy, who every now and take the opportunity to reinforce the image they wish to project of itself, even without understanding, forging a dynamic that will ironically distance from people.
Smarty particularly has no qualms about pretending to have answers that do not have, say things without considering the consequence, given that his main interest is to demonstrate "once again" it is he who knows. Contradicts another with sufficiency and invent facts that sound good, gaining prestige from its false allegations that are accepted in lieu of which are true. Thus inadvertent shaping how their partners perceive the world from lies.
Smarty, who lies consistently to maintain their status, known to himself what others see in it is false, but can stand quietly while sitting incongruity accepted by them. Unfortunately for him, in his quest to appear as one who keeps and maintains the truth, enters a competition dynamics, within which it is necessary to discredit their friends or others who are personally significant to maintain the desired status. Sadly, sustained deception feel a distance between him and the same people whose acceptance searches.
systematic liar lives condemned to not be known by those who wish not to establish intimacy with anyone while making use of lies as their way of interaction. People are linked to his mask and not to him, remember his stories, but not their history. And finally, the lie becomes the defense is difficult to abandon, because for him there is always the disbelief in how successful your true self might be, the question that without lying still might be nice to get eyes of others.
The liar is sadly captive in a dungeon in which he himself holds the key.
How much is little?, We would say here in Mexico. The best way to know when the line lying in the "too" when we begin to feel that we hide the truth away from our people. This can probably be a warning mechanism.
This is a blog post http://xiu-cuautli.blogspot.com/
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