distracted by Christmas, we had no chance to get happy for the approval of marriage between men and lesbians. This event, which could drag the Faint almost certain ideological leaders disagree with the news, gives a twist to the way that hundreds of gay people raised their own lives: one grows up, gets a job, a couple , a family and so on, especially when it is heterosexual. You see, all that traditional manual says how one should live, a sophisticated and expanded version of "born, grow, reproduce and die." What does it mean today to be able to marry? Basically
that, a possibility. If before a woman or a gay man did not marry, was because they could not, if not married today is because they chose not to. Is a subtle, but important when it comes to exist in a social context that gives us the wherewithal needed to live fully. But who would not marry, can do and having found the right person?; Certainly divided opinion.
Marriage institutions often lead to very important for the functioning of our society, such as family or divorce. A couple of days found in a newspaper interview that expressed something about the tradition surrounding the marriage, and I think we have a point: the majority of Mexicans have grown traditionally scheduled for one day get married, that if white, if the ceremony in the garden of his aunt slut. There are many people who get married this makes them very excited, when a couple takes this step, the relationship takes a turn to more serious and more social commitment to stay together, that in the case of gay couples is not something that we come nothing wrong.
one hand, indeed, many same-sex couples thunder the first conflict, or do so disenchanted when the infatuation is over. Until now it was exclusive to heterosexual couples that the laws prevented the couple dissolved easily, since initiating this factor will also impact the gay marriage, who also have the ability to share legal benefits as social security, pension or the ability to share or inherit property. Are not insignificant advantages.
other hand, I think our society is so overrated marriage we usually put it over the quality of life of those who make up the relationship, As with some heterosexual couples, which emerged after the intra-household violence, the couple stays together and not to violate the sacred institution of marriage. It may be something to think. Some say that marriage begins with the tedium and routine, your partner begins to have less detail or you begin to see yourself safe or secure in the relationship and we wanted to throw. What would your relationship if tomorrow you married?
Overall, the relevance of marriage is that it starts with the family, and is just such a debate that Mexican society is still a pending issue: what is the family? Until recently, television, marketing and advice from our grandparents we spoke of families "functional" because they were composed of a mom, dad, one or two children (yes, preferably the couple's children) and a dog. Today we all know of families without a father or without mother families with two moms, no kids, two parents and even without a dog, and they all work. So how is the ideal family? Currently we are not sure something like "ideal family" actually exists.
therefore meaningless to say that the existence of marriages between homosexuals assaulting or Shifting the model family because there is such a model "unique" family. Just as with sexuality, even among the families there is diversity, and gay marriage with their natural or adopted children will be just one model of many that is when it comes to family.
And among such diversity, there will probably also want to marry couples who do not have the alternative of doing, it will be appropriate if they so decide, the issue here is to have the alternative. For many or many there is a special charm of staying in this engagement, that at all sounds like being stuck: be dating is to remember every day that the other is next to one because you want to be without law enforcement or social, is to remember to have occasionally a detail that makes you fall in love even more, especially if it is still possible. The same with them than with them.
The proposal in the pipeline, which would consider whether your partner and you actually need is marriage, if so, how to plan ahead to get the idea refined?, Will there be an addition to the signing ceremony in civil registration?, if so, think about how they crave the ceremony, wedding rituals investigated in ours or other cultures and identify what it is more the style of couples who are, their tastes, their fantasies, or invent your own ceremony, contrary to traditional cliché, there must be a massive event, or expensive, or solemn, but it can be anything particularly funny or original that you prefer, finally, it is a party.
That wedding is an excellent dressing for the couple, but in any case serves as a medicine for your relationship. If the intention is to improve the way you and your partner relate, I suggest you think again and choose another time to make that decision. Your relationship
crosses a good time?, "Both positive or both are thinking about marriage?, If both were" yes ", it's time to start planning.
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