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And all this, who say you?, Ok, regardless of how you call, I will not say too much and far beyond those phrases and so terribly common already leaving say something, who are you, how you define who you are and especially how to define the way you feel?

few years ago, when I decided to make the argument to become finally a full-fledged psychologist, I was particularly motivated by scratching a whim over the issue of identity. Later, during the development of this grounded theory research on the gay issue, I was surprised at the extent that this simple concept is, not only for its theoretical beauty, for theoretical anyone serves, but by the possibility that to give explanations about what no one asks, but we all move ... somehow.

For example, do you ever stopped to think how many things in life we \u200b\u200bsafe? or please tell me a truth that is absolutely irrefutable.

Ok, maybe I have become very difficult. I am not aware that the earth is round, but I believe it so I'm told. Is the official version. Neither I know that Japan is in Asia, I have never gone to check. I'm not sure Cortés, Colón and Jerome have been, or Socrates, or Atlantis, but something that I can guarantee with absolute conviction that I am here writing to you to read this. I was also a man that I am taller than the average, older than some, younger than others ... And even when everything in the world is uncertain, although nothing is safe and all my convictions could deteriorate, yet I know that there is some truth to dry: it's me who is there, trying to understand what happens.

Give me a lever and I will move the world. The same goes with certainty.

Ah, but can not be so simple. And Heraclitus said that the only constant in the universe is change itself. Pantha rei, everything changes. You can not step twice in the same river because the river has changed mutable water at the same moment that you've left behind and, worse, you stop being that it had entered moments before in the warm waters. You become as you read my lines, you become something different to scroll through time, through space, by the experiences we live. The Tao te

change.

always the same equation, but the variables change, the formula becoming increasingly more precise, perfect, even wiser. Do you notice you as you changed from yesterday to today? There are the same, do not think alike, or feel the same way. Will mature?, Did you grow up?, I do not know, but the definition has changed and you make yourself so has. Your identity changed and will continue.

ID's that you say you are now, and what they want become. A single man of middle age. That is my case. However, when I'm married, if I do, that definition that I have of me and will not serve, and I will be forced to leave and make me one that I look good. Have you noticed how does that feel? When you realize that what they thought, and you are not over.

All we have is that we are sure we know who we are, and if we change we will adjust our identity, as soon as possible, to our new way of being and living. The child becomes an uncertain teenager, a student must now look for work, the bachelor is to be married, the expatriate is no longer the peasant from his parents. In each case it is giving up being the we were and transform into something new, or stay pretending that nothing has changed and we are still so in reality, there will be more, so we do not need to be more.

In the final analysis, we are only what we do to change who we are.

must resign and let die the skin no longer use, that our fathers knew, our friends, our rivals. But giving up is not easy, and often very painful and deeply frightening.

That is the identity, a process of construction, freehand, our greatest work: ourselves. Where it takes us, we choose to transform us and that we hold no loving skins loosen. Sometimes it is quiet and slow, as the growing day by day, others are sudden and violent as the death of her husband that from now on will be a widow, but always let go, drop the weights for the weight of what we have been not Double back and weary spirit.

What are you changing now?

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Against AIDS, a good quality of life

[Published in Anodis: http://anodis.com/nota/10471.asp ]

Carlos is a man who came one day consultation, considering that it was time to see how it fared with his HIV infection. I was surprised to see him go: a tall, attractive, close to forty, extremely athletic body, tanned and energetic movements. He arrived smiling, joking as if the interview would be to hold the most everyday, and with all the tranquility of the world, told me his short story.
happens that he was one of those men who became infected with HIV in the eighties, and between orgies, parties and partying, a day in the morning, decided to get tested for antibodies to the virus and see how walking thing. The result was positive. Being HIV positive at twenty years was not the dream of his life, but not to live with HIV was Charles to renounce his projects already started to materialize.

And that was very difficult to assimilate. He went from a stage of denial to anger and then to all stages that are experienced throughout the match, but gradually he discovered that, at least in his case, HIV was not to be the hero of his story, because the real star was Carlos, and so began to live.

Without returning to deny its reality as a man living with HIV, Carlos decided not to build their lives around the virus, and its first action was to get information, to know what was happening if not protected in the future and reinfections, know when they were needed antiretroviral drugs, and potentials, in general. Medicaría resolved that the first signs of immune deficiency, which would take care to have sex to avoid re-infection and strengthen the virus, and would do whatever was in their power to be happy.

I saw the man who told me this story, told a little more per extensive as I was the talk at these lines, it became very clear that he had done it: sitting in front of me in my office, had a man who was happy. Of the eighty at the time he had lived his life in a special way, more focused on their well-being of what ordinary people focused and more aware than others of the state their own emotions. It took care of himself, he says, and take care of someone who loved tremendously, took a chance as anyone would risk to get their projects, but there was always some things that were not negotiable, as the time to be with himself and his people, their moments of rest and so on.

Finally, Carlos finished talking in his case, HIV changed your life in a way he never imagined, learned to live to avoid dying, he acquired a strong responsibility for themselves and knew the flavors, colors and scents of world through the full capacity of your senses. I was actually more alive than many who lived around without infection, and was very happy. I never mentioned being grateful for being infected, had been very brave to do so, but insisted a few times in his pride at having found the way forward.

Weeks later, Carlos returned by the test results, serology was positive as could be expected, given that HIV is not removed from the system but, as was the case with Carlos, arrived in the best situation to an undetectable level between blood cells and causes unnecessary treatment with antiretroviral drugs.

people are said to be tolerant better than others to HIV infection and may never get to develop any disease associated with this virus. Is said to be due to genetic privileged chromosomal issue, and so forth. With Carlos I doubt there's been.

When a woman or a man living with the virus infection, the lifestyle is crucial to protect yourself from AIDS: HIV directly affects white blood cells, which correspond to the immune system, and deteriorate. When defenses are so low, opportunistic diseases come and make a killing on the health of the individual. Similarly, when we are very happy and laugh when we dance or when we exercise and basically we are to our taste, the body secretes a hormone named: endorphins. Endorphins immediately and positively affect the production of immune system cells, strengthen and protect from disease.

What Carlos did the live monitoring the welfare of their emotions, exercise, and looking comfortable with himself, was precisely to strengthen your immune system attacks a day against HIV. In addition, Carlos is taken very seriously their off hours. He did not know, but while we sleep, our body secretes a substance called growth hormone, which is work on regenerate all tissues deteriorate throughout the day, either daily wear or the presence of an insidious virus that depletes the immune system.

So Carlos was able to maintain their health, despite living infected with the virus that can potentially cause AIDS, at a time when antiretroviral drugs were really aggressive against the body of the person living with HIV. Nowadays the question is slightly easier, the drugs are no longer as harmful and there is a greater openness towards the subject of AIDS, but still needed to understand what was intuitively clear to Carlos: the quality of life can be a tool for developing or AIDS or even other diseases.

now, sometimes I meet him at the bar of a bar, talking to someone or saying goodbye after one or two beers. He, of course, not actually named Carlos, but I think his story is a story about what we might think for a while.

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