By Mario Alberto Reyes / Agency
NotieSe The non-involvement of emotions during casual sex is a fallacy, because But the bodies are released from clothing, dress simultaneously desires, hopes and desires that lead to isolation from the reality in which individuals belong together and no longer feel alone, said the psychologist Hernán Paniagua.
explained that contrary to the expectations of many people looking for sex without making commitments, at least there is always the related to having sex with the person contacted, because if they refuse, there will be complaints and reminder of the commitment to sleep with her.
Paniagua, who is responsible Anodis Academic Department of Counseling, defined as "a reality" that the gay people feel "terribly alone", which is why the sex is a palliative. He mentioned that one of the causes of sex addiction, could be based on the association between sex and physical contact interpreted as a sign of affection and acceptance.
"It fills the emotional vacuum, so I question much to say that in casual sex no emotional commitment, indeed we are to the extent that the enjoyment of sex can be affected by the worry of having a good performance erotic and sexual. "
Talking to this agency to publicize the workshop 5 Keys to sex without commitment, same to be conducted in single sessions in Mexico City, Veracruz, Acapulco, Tijuana, Puebla, Puerto Vallarta, Mexican cities with the highest prevalence rates of HIV / AIDS, Hernán Paniagua said that the false beliefs and myths often involve uncertainties sexual enjoyment.
stressed that the workshop participants will reflect on the thoughts, myths and beliefs that generate sexual dysfunctions of psychological origin, with emphasis on safe sex as a way to avoid that fear compromise the erotic pleasure during sex .
"In the gay community most sexual dysfunctions are of psychological origin, for although there are circulation problems, or psychological, that can lead to erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation are generally related to the lack of focus on what is being enjoying it. "
Therapist graduate of the University Nacional Autonoma de Mexico, added that in such cases dominates the anguish of erotic-sexual performance, maintain a good erection, having a rich and "scandalous" ejaculation, or fear to be acquiring a sexually transmitted infection.
"So when ejaculation occurs, you will experience a relief because it is a physiological reaction, but the orgasm is going to feel a half."
For the expert, Mexico's self-esteem is a public health problem, ie not only concern men who have sex with men (MSM)-mostly affected by HIV / AIDS and those targeted by the workshop-but to the general population because culturally it is not taught to value themselves, but to be modest and humble in order to avoid being classified as "arrogant" or "narcissistic."
This, he added, a special impact in the field of MSM, for being punished historically, socially and culturally by their sexual practices during the pursuit of such self-care there is no lack of appreciation, ie short term do anything just to have sexual pleasure risking life projects.
"One of the reasons why the MSM get HIV / AIDS is not receiving sufficient value in itself themselves as self-care to bet on. "
For a healthy sex life, the key
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The project is funded by the Counseling Center for the Prevention and Control of HIV / AIDS, is free and is open to men over 18 years with homosexual practices. In each city will open a group of 30 people who will be given informational material prepared by a team composed of psychologists Deborah Buiza, Hernán Paniagua, David Hernandez, Leonardo Bautista and Daniel Carrasco.
In this way, attendees can meet and make use of the five clues provided by experts to have sex without commitment or act in a protected manner without compromising the eroticism.
Protect yourself, love and nurture, focus on what you're doing, you can communicate with each other and grant you the right to feel pleasure, are the keys that will be taught during the workshop attendees. Ministry proposes
Anodis psychological services capable of conducting gay people to reconciliation with themselves, to teach them the right to feel, act and love does not require the approval of the rest of society. This in an atmosphere of total empathy with therapists specializing in providing professional support to sexual minorities. This is a publication
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