Since we started this thing called the Aquarian age, there has been a tremendous boom of new age trends Arabian proposed strategies for living better, some more sensible than others, definitely, but all wrapped in a subtle charm magic, fate and mysticism. You may not everyone want to attract the level of practice, but few could deny that they consider, at least interesting.
few days ago, for example, talking with a friend about how, some theorize before birth and be part of this world, we trade the experiences and challenges that need to be to achieve a higher level in our spiritual evolution. According to this idea, then sometimes experience the same type problems because the problems we choose to experiment to learn and grow.
What do you think?, How improbable sound?
Actually, everyone has it ever happened that the problems facing us recognize what is really important when you're worried or concerned about what lies ahead, and have no energy to do the thousand things that normally would only dedicate yourself to what matters, or the people who matter. This is what usually happens with all crises, have a strange effect clarifier. It is said that when there are problems you identify your true friends know your actual capacity and locate those so it is worth fighting.
Hang on to what is important to continue living, and what is not important, just let it go to pass up.
Then you might experience problems in life have the unintended consequence of showing what has to be released along the way: these things, memories, situations or relationships that only hinder us to continue growing. Can a balloon to rise without first releasing their ballast?, Throughout life is less difficult to identify what is ballast what not, that releases once you have identified.
For psychology is clear that many of the problemas que solemos enfrentar, surgen de una actitud de no querer soltar aquello a lo que estamos demasiado apegados, aun cuando reconozcamos que son elementos de nuestro pasado que ya no necesitamos, ni funcionan, ni nos nutren emocional o espiritualmente. Muchas filosofías coinciden al prevenirnos en contra de los apegos, algunas se alarman frente a los apegos en general y otras, más de lado de la psicología, solamente nos previenen ante ciertos apegos, de esos que no hacen otra cosa que estorbar.
¿Te ha sucedido que sostienes relaciones que en lugar de satisfacerte solamente te agobian más?; quizá un amigo o amiga con quien en lugar de contribuir a sentirte mejor, sabe siempre cómo hacer para que te sientas peor; Maybe that picture still hangs on the wall, and every time you look back breaks your soul, or the work that takes years, but gray spot on you may have been sunny. Do you do weights you identify that you charging?
Perhaps in this life with our decisions we choosing the issues we will address later, possibly not choose our problems before birth, that sounds extremely abrupt, but it is more likely that today, to hold on to something I should have been released and yesterday ceased to belong, is forcing situations I will generate tomorrow's problems, and if you stubbornly insist to hold on, continually the same kind of problems will happen again and again, until I finally decided to let go.
Think of a relationship that no longer works, who have tried everything and standing head and make the things change, but do not want to be alone, and apply the axiom of "better than nothing." Then comes a problem arising from this inability to let go of the relationship, perhaps with shouts and dishes flying against the walls, then a stronger one, then another more, after a while, if the couple separates, the growing increase in problems are going to lead to an untenable situation with which they will break and go each his life, without ballast which had turned their relationship.
The drawback is that the problems are not friendly counsel, and if you expect them to be the ones who solve the dilemma of whether or not to drop when the situation is resolved, invariably, someone ends up hurt.
What happens when you do not loose the cigar and I cling to smoking?, My health will be a recurring problem: what happens when you do not cut the umbilical cord with my family?, Probably my relationship will be plagued with problems lack of privacy, what if I stick to publicly display an image that is not for me?, maybe in one of these, the problem is I became a frequent customer of robbers and kidnappers.
always going to have problems because they have an undeniable role in our evolution as human beings, what is wrong is continually a certain type of problems do we always victim, and in worse shape every time. It is worth asking what I need to change for that to stop happening, and probably need to be changed, consists precisely in a drag that I should release.
Do you know people for whom they are a little easier to drop, or may choose to clarify its attachments?, When you drop the twentieth day of the burdens that loads (or at least some of them) transcend causing you problems and you start having more everyday little problems more surmountable. The current new age would tell you that this is a way to harmonize ourselves with the world we live in, taking what they need and tell you the stops releasing when necessary.
Some people do not usually have problems in some area of \u200b\u200byour life, even if they have in other fields, or are people who never seriously ill, or never have marital problems, economic or general may appear to always do well. "Locating a person? Take a moment to look in a mirror and identify what is easy for you to drop, which is located the area where you do not usually have big problems: How did you learn to not carry such burdens?, Can you do the same with those who are not so easy to let go?
's worth a try, let's not easy, but will allow you to reach higher.
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