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Much has been heard to throughout life, especially during our childhood, about young people princes and princesses at the hands of an evil witch or wizard, complete converted into a toad, rat, swan, crow, horse, dog and even chandelier, pot or kettle. But what is there in these stories?, Are these practices in common use today? In the following lines reveal the milestones of truth behind the fiction, and know the fate of one who sees her identity in something other than itself: a being nasty, often times ends up being green and slimy.
After an exhaustive review of what went through fairy tale, we find that the testimony described the attackers come from diverse, who choose a random victim and subsequently exert their arts against him. The event lasts a few moments, sometimes just a few words to lift his curse, but it is recorded that, on occasion, to say nothing against the victim works the same results.
The deceased, meanwhile, who had taken over his life and who was being controlled at that time, more or less proud or proud of themselves, with varying degrees of satisfaction in that regard and the slopes of a sketch future in the process of being struck, suddenly sees that his identity has had a perverse impact that disrupts, something changes like skip a beat, and notes with fulminant despite its reflection in the mirror does not return more than the image that had become accustomed. It is no longer who he was, and no pleasure, no longer looks with pride or satisfaction. Go with a progressive pain that is no longer that person who fought so hard to become and now is another thing: you have become a victim.
Hence the types of victims are very varied: some are turned into beasts of burden in nasty bugs in cats, cats, dogs, furniture and even referring feel completely invisible.
recognized as a victim is only the first step in a long process of transformation that begins with the attacker being hit. A victim is a person who snatches the reins of his life, he is forced to look like something that is not and is prevented from becoming who you want to be, is denied the opportunity to realize their dreams , plans or desires. The victim is being transformed. It defines itself by the way the look at his assailant, and never forget you, being in his memory the face of the evil witch or sorcerer as a mark tattooed with fire absolutely indelible.
A victim, then, to continue processing, will increasingly discovering little or increasingly tiny, deformed view your image you become uncomfortable in their own eyes, it becomes someone steeped in fear, is isolated to remote sites where others can not see its ugliness and refuses to touch or be touched by anyone. And in the solitude and isolation, the victim ends at the end of its transformation, completely destroyed and no trace of being proud enough of himself that were in the past.
Others also notice changes, but for them is not so obvious. The curse that the victim suffers, it will show quite clearly that child is becoming, so flees because he knows that sooner or later others will discover it as well.
The perception of the victim to what he or she were in the past, it's like think an outsider who belongs to the history of any other story. Looking at their image on the surface of a pond, found in its reflection to be no appreciation of whether, without security, no future and guilty, because not long without, to remember what happened, the victim will remove any liability his assailant and infirmity all the blame, believing himself to be worthy or deserving of it condemns him.
Today these ancient practices of witches and sorcerers are so widespread and so wildly in vogue as drinking Coca Cola, today, so any exercise this dark art, and anytime we can be, in most everyday situations, with the risk of being transformed into a victim. Are some examples: the friend that instead of listening to your punishment has been around leaving you with the words in the mouth, the bank charges you a commission arbitrarily over, the guard who asks you retire baseless the same gym that those enrolled, the man who insults you in the bus station, the friend you go down to the bride, the assailant who forced you to throw yourself on the floor while emptying your bag of anything of value.
All are examples of the same species, but different magnitudes, and these cases, and many others who can come to your imagination, they act exactly the same effect: you dig up the reins your life, force you to feel powerless, they alter the perception you have of you, and so on.
What to do then? In common as they are, every moment can be subject to them, and we can also victimize others, and even inadvertently, without realizing that we are doing, but in any case be transformed into a victim in only one of the alternatives.
The other alternative is to confront the offender and request an explanation, or accused, can not cope. People often say that reporting a robber, for example, has no sense because you will not find or will not get justice, but in reality this is not the goal, the goal, against dark magic going becoming a victim, is to carry out an act of reparation that will stop your transformation. A victim is, by definition, a being who acts, just someone on the other act and decide. When you act for the first time when you go back victim, the curse is broken and continue to be you, with more or less the same satisfaction and pride in being who you are, with the same control to be who you choose to be.
There are even reports of ordinary people who were on the verge of becoming victims and to prevent the development of spell became princes or princesses. These stories have already been properly ratified by witnesses.
Thus, any time a person will be at risk of being transformed into something that does not want to be, she must resort to a ritual to cancel the power of that magic. Each situation requires a different purification ritual, for example, tell the friend that need to be heard and ask him to stay to listen, ask the bank the unfair cancellation fee, reported to the vigilant management of the gym, be courteous to man questioned by insults you, do see your confusion to your friend and your (now) ex girlfriend sue the assailant, or whatever you feel like you need it to do; the key is to do something. In essence, it is not seeking punishment or revenge against the aggressor, the goal is to prove to yourself or yourself that no one can transform yourself into a victim, and that nothing will make you be what you do not want be.
But sometimes there's magic too powerful and difficult to dodge, and it may be that even if what you propose, you're in the process of turning into a victim. Then just like the old story where the power of a kiss was enough to break any spell. A kiss, a hug, a caress or a chat with someone you know loves you and can understand you.
If the old ogre instead of running to the solitude of the swamp had asked for a hug from someone you like, or cried on the shoulder of a friend, the sad part of the story would have been much shorter and he would again be a happy man much faster.
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