victim "Opposites or complementary?
If you are planning is to make a TV show, an advertising campaign or even a clever joke that will become the life of the party, my suggestion is to have recourse to the popular theme of war between the sexes is a common place, but using it will guarantee the attention of males and females alike.
All and all we have enjoyed some Instead of a witty parody about the opposite sex, even we have: fatal lead them, they believe that feet are three inches, they never arrive early, they never ask for help and a long etcetera. So vastly different from each other that one can not find each other the funny side, is the advantage of being so contrary and irreconcilable: one of Mars and the other from Venus.
Now, the uncomfortable question: how lightning is going to join a man and a woman to share their lives and raise a family, when their natures are so opposed? Among the disqualification arises inherently opposed, unhappiness, misunderstanding and war. So it would be worth to think doubted the opposite is in practice a good idea.
So let us put aside the war of the sexes, along with the notion of opposites, and think more about what complementary: they and they united in a single project of life to share their days in favor of forming a new family over and mutually supporting one another in order to cover the weaknesses of the other or the other. Thus, together, get happily be whole beings. Think
complementary sex is nice because there is no peak through the issue of teamwork is implicit in this complementarity: a girl becomes a woman when a man has completed at his side, and a boy becomes a man when a woman compels, or more, as a couple.
And then you go out and find thousands of women who are able to tolerate any abuse so as not to lose the wey that both complements and women: beatings, isolation, contempt, and men seeking to start a relationship after another to feel more and more men, more and more complete.
Speaking of the opposite sex, men and women are isolated and unable to make contact to share projects or emotionally, intellectually and in many ways, also a physicist. Speaking of complementary sex imply that no one can be a complete person himself or herself unless a foo or twinkie come to bring you what is missing.
Who says I'm missing something, or I can not take courage for myself?, It makes sense to say that it is better to be alone, to put up and look bad together. However
everywhere we hear references to the opposition or complementarity of the sexes, so recurrence, in fact, it has become obvious and one hundred percent natural, "not because this is chamba contract of men" "you'll have to get a woman who knows how to cook," if you want a child, first get yourself a good husband "and others.
There is very little against which we universally so clearly: there are men and women there are two sexes, as there is a day and night, as positive and negative, good and evil or active and passive, yin and yang, Chip and chokecherry. They are the kind of certainty that one would calm down in this stormy life full of uncertainties.
But as well as day and night, there is the sunrise and sunset, dawn and other states through which the sun, moon, stars and the earth will fall into place, also turns out that between the inseparable pair of man and woman is also clenched testosterone women and men with overdeveloped mammary glands, chromosomes are XY, XX, and equal XXY XYY, there are women with male genitals and men with vagina, women who believe men and women men who claim to be locked in a man's anatomy. So you could go on, but I think it shows where to go: it is not easy to differentiate the line between a sex of the foal, ecause such a line, speaking from the context of nature, the very design of the universe does not exist.
The sexes are not opposite and complementary because there are two, because there are nuances in nature because each and every one of the things you can find, there are a continuum of shades. We are humans who we invent the category peers and our absolute definitions to try to fit the nature within those categories. Can you be more naive?
We invented the concept of man and woman and how everyone had to behave, we assign them a role in society and imposed hierarchies, where some ended up being above the other, and the other, to far left with the possibility of being the great woman who is always behind a great man.
then affirm to others that "this is natural" and "has always been that way, hoping to return arguable, and even said" this is how God wants you, "and with that, and needless to say.
For many people this is not so clear hierarchy where men are above women, found no association with that in the wage gap in the type of posts, pictures in the newspapers, or advertising campaigns often target men , putting the women who carry the product or be a secondary gain once you made your purchase of the aforementioned product.
In our culture, set your that Western women are not only inferior, but also invisible: newspapers are not heard from them, except in a very small percentage (come on, take one and start counting) how many presidents know?, when you talk answers about the them and those, how many times employ feminine nouns or adjectives?, it is understood that when you say "all", you mean men and women alike, there is no need to name them.
And what name does not exist.
flourished in the seventies a series of moves that led to a change in the way we see social rolls: feminism. Sometimes more radical than others, feminists have put a red on this slide mount as experienced women, to highlight. He has been called domestic violence because this treatment not only denies the visibility of women in social life, but the same is denied their rights.
A woman must seek permission to have an abortion, to use contraception, to go out at night, to make personal plans. If you get the permit, must be back home to prepare dinner, you can work, but must not neglect the children, can go with her friends, but must be in bed if you feel like man sex. We analyze and ends with the result that a girl is not her own body, nor can it make decisions about it because the others are vehemently questioning.
When they are small they are told "you have to give your place," but it seems that this place did not want anyone.
What keeps things that way? The Traditional education does, many of which we call "traditions" are nothing more than disguised forms of tyranny to preserve "the proper place for a woman." The grandmothers are indignant in the presence of the woman who does not need a man to feel complete, the mothers worry when she studies his postgraduate degree and is not concerned with the preparations for the wedding. Of the woman who chooses to be a mother hearth, well, "poor creature" assert my aunts. Men also participate equally in the maintenance of the submission.
As stated it was God himself who gave this place a woman, then it becomes a successful corporate director, outstanding academic or head of household by their own choice, is very close to committing a sin to be assumed to be independent and not seek a man who "take care of it." Thus, the cost of personal fulfillment is at fault if a believer, or blame, again, if you are involved with a social system that is disobeying the old traditions. Then society required to compensate, he lives in a continual state of taboo.
This is gender violence, read: prevent a person from access to resources to meet their needs and achievements, because of gender. How does your exercise it?, What way you accept it?
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